Five Hidden Signs a Woman Might Have Had Many Partners Before You
Before dating, many women try to present themselves as innocent and naive in your eyes. This behavior can mislead inexperienced men and lead to unnecessary problems. The following sections summarize the five signs described in a controversial article about dating and past relationships.
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Sign 1 and 2: She Takes the Initiative — and Talks About Money Early
Sign 1: A woman may show enormous initiative when you first meet. An inexperienced man might think she is impressed by him—by his body and his mind. He may believe she can’t keep her hands off him. In reality, many women who act this way are trying to control the situation and test boundaries. She often does not want to appear easily accessible, so when she truly likes a man, she may try not to show it openly. If she provokes closeness—kisses, frank conversations about intimacy—it can signal she is comfortable in such situations and has done this before. She feels at ease taking the lead rather than playing hard to get. Sign 2: On a date, she tries to 'sell' herself, or at least present herself as worth a premium. She may bring up money and lifestyle early, explaining why a man should be financially secure and spend on her. She is portrayed as a woman with specific expectations, used to a certain standard of living. Bringing up this topic on the first or second date can imply that she has used this tactic many times before. Men with low self-esteem are especially drawn to such women; every step of closening might feel like bargaining.
Sign 3: When You Are Alone, She Quickly Moves to the Main Point
When you’re alone together, she moves straight to the topic of intimacy without much explanation. Explaining more or arguing about it is not considered necessary in this sign. This pattern is described as a clear signal of prior experience rather than a momentary urge.
Sign 4: After the First Date, She Asks for a Gift
After the date, she requests something from you. This is described as a 'trial session' and suggests that further time or contact comes with payment. The idea is that you might buy a month of access or another arrangement. The woman has supposedly shed social pressure and is ready to receive what she wants. If the gift is reasonably priced and you enjoy her company, you may consider continuing. However, do not build illusions about her intentions.
Sign 5: Alone with You, She Relaxes Quickly
To truly feel pleasure, she needs psychological safety and calm next to her partner, and that takes time. The more partners she has had, the quicker she may adapt to being with someone new. If, when alone with you, she tells you how to touch her, where to place things, or how to address her, this signals a sophisticated sexual experience. Such behavior is often associated with mature women. For some men, it’s better to accept that the woman knows what she wants rather than trying to teach her.
